Kids In The Kitchen: Expert Tips For Getting Children Involved

From Flour Explosions to Perfect Pasta Nights: Help Your Kids Take Over the Kitchen

By Dr. Manasa Mantravadi

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Flour clouds float through the air. Tomato sauce fingerprints trail from counter to fridge. A single noodle somehow sticks to the ceiling. Cooking with kids brings chaos... and joy! Watching their pride swell when they taste something they made themselves? Worth every mess. Montessori reminds us that kids thrive with real responsibilities. Let them crack the eggs, stir the sauce & set the table. Yes, it takes patience. Yes, you’ll find crumbs in strange places for days. But the kitchen becomes a place where little hands build big life skills, create plant-based meals & learn that sustainable living starts at home.

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Why Kids Belong in the Kitchen

Involving children in kitchen activities aligns with the Montessori philosophy, which emphasizes practical life skills as a foundation for learning. Engaging in tasks like stirring, measuring, and pouring not only fosters independence but also boosts confidence through hands-on experiences. According to the American Montessori Society , practical life activities promote fine and gross motor coordination, enhancing cognitive development.


Even better, cooking together provides real-world applications of math and science concepts, enriching a child's educational journey. By entrusting kids with meaningful kitchen responsibilities, we empower them to become self-reliant and capable individuals.

Mealtime Essentials

Setting Up a Montessori-Friendly Kitchen

A kitchen where kids feel welcome and capable starts with organization that’s thoughtful. Tools and ingredients should be within their reach. Designate a low shelf or drawer for child-friendly bowls, plates, or utensils. Accessibility empowers them to participate! They can’t be independent if they’re asking mom to reach for something for them.


Child-sized utensils are a great investment because they really can make a big difference. Smaller whisks, spatulas, and knives designed for little hands enhance their ability to contribute effectively. For instance, a crinkle cutter allows kids to safely slice soft fruits and vegetables.


Safety and sustainability go hand in hand. Go for eco-friendly materials like stainless steel for dishes and cups. Our  stainless steel plates and  Conscious Cups are durable, free from harmful chemicals, and perfectly sized for kids.


Something you don’t think about very much in your own kitchen is a no-brainer: clear labeling! Your spices all have labels on them, don’t they? Kids need labels of their own. You can use picture labels or small words to mark where items belong. If you use a photo or image I recommend including the actual word, too – it helps with literacy development and, bonus, it keeps the kitchen organized. Additionally, consider a learning tower or sturdy step stool to give them safe access to countertops and sinks.

Age-Appropriate Kitchen Tasks

Toddlers love to feel helpful. Give them simple jobs like washing fruits, tearing herbs, or wiping countertops with a damp cloth. Their curiosity thrives when they explore textures, smells & colors in food. Hand them a small bowl of berries to rinse, or let them sprinkle salt on sliced cucumbers. Even pushing the button on the blender or tossing lettuce into a salad bowl feels like a big responsibility. Spills happen. Laugh them off.


Preschoolers can handle more responsibility. Let them measure dry ingredients, stir batter, knead dough or spread peanut butter on bread. Hand them a plastic lettuce knife to cut soft foods like bananas or mushrooms. Give them a small pitcher to pour water into cups at dinner. Cracking eggs is messy, but preschoolers love it. Let them peel hard-boiled eggs or shuck corn. Even setting spoons and forks on the table gives them a sense of ownership.


Older kids need bigger challenges. Teach them to chop vegetables with a small paring knife, peel carrots, boil pasta or scramble eggs. Let them plan and cook simple meals like grilled cheese, quesadillas, or oatmeal. Show them how to load the dishwasher, set the table & pack leftovers. Mixing pancake batter, flipping pancakes & slicing fruit makes breakfast a fun task they can handle.


Teenagers can manage entire meals. Ask them to follow a recipe from start to finish, bake bread, roast vegetables or prepare stir-fry. Encourage them to experiment with flavors, adjust seasonings & improvise when ingredients are missing. Assign them grocery list duty, have them pack lunches, or let them handle weeknight dinners when schedules get hectic.


Each age group learns through doing. Scrubbing, mixing & cooking helps develop motor skills, confidence & a real connection to food. Kitchen time teaches responsibility while bringing the family together.

Plant-Based Recipes Kids Can Make

Introducing children to plant-based cooking can be both fun and educational. Simple recipes like smoothies, pasta dishes, and veggie wraps are perfect for young chefs. For instance, blending fruits with leafy greens creates delicious smoothies that are both nutritious and easy to prepare. Pasta tossed with a variety of vegetables offers a colorful and engaging meal. Veggie wraps allow kids to choose their favorite fillings, fostering creativity and independence in the kitchen.


For a fun twist on a classic snack, try our  Healthy Flaming Hot Popcorn. This recipe recreates the iconic "flaming hot" flavor using a homemade seasoning free of artificial dyes, making it a spicy, crunchy, and dye-free alternative to store-bought versions. Kids can help mix the spices and sprinkle them over freshly popped popcorn, turning snack time into a flavorful adventure.


To keep kids hydrated with nutritious options, explore our Healthy Drink Recipes. These beverages replace sugary sodas and juices with wholesome alternatives that boost immunity and overall nutrition. From fruity infusions to vegetable-based drinks, these recipes are simple for kids to prepare and enjoy.


For a hearty meal, consider making Instant Pot Ayurvedic Kichdi. This traditional Indian dish combines rice, lentils, and spices into a warm, comforting porridge. It's a one-pot meal that's easy to prepare, and kids can assist by measuring ingredients and seasoning the dish. Kichdi is not only delicious but also packed with nutrients, making it a wholesome choice for family dinners.


Engaging children in preparing these plant-based recipes fosters a love for healthy eating and builds essential cooking skills. Plus, sharing these culinary experiences can create lasting family memories.

Sustainable Living With Ahimsa

Embrace the spills, giggles & sticky fingers. Cooking with kids builds confidence, teaches life skills & creates lasting memories. Our durable, non-toxic Ahimsa dishware makes mealtime safer and more fun.

Dr. Manasa Mantravadi

Dr. Manasa Mantravadi

Dr. Manasa Mantravadi is a board-certified pediatrician whose dedication to children’s health drove her to launch Ahimsa, the world's first colorful stainless steel dishes for kids. She was motivated by the American Academy of Pediatrics’ findings on harmful chemicals in plastic affecting children's well-being. Ahimsa has gained widespread recognition and been featured in media outlets such as Parents Magazine, the Today Show, The Oprah Magazine, and more.

Dr. Mantravadi received the esteemed “Physician Mentor of the Year” award at Indiana University School of Medicine in 2019. She was also named a Forbes Next 1000 Entrepreneur in 2021, with her inspiring story showcased on Good Morning America. She serves on the Council for Environmental Health and Climate Change and the Council for School Health at The American Academy of Pediatrics. She represents Ahimsa as a U.S. industry stakeholder on the Intergovernmental Negotiating Committee (INC) for the Global Plastics Treaty, led by the United Nations Environment Program. Dr. Mantravadi leads Ahimsa's social impact program, The Conscious Cafeteria Project, to reduce carbon emissions and safeguard student health as part of a national pilot of the Clinton Global Initiative.

She is dedicated to educating and empowering people to make healthier, more environmentally friendly choices at mealtime. Her mission remains to advocate for the health of all children and the one planet we will leave behind for them through real policy change within our food system.

More Mealtime Essentials

Frequently Asked Questions

Why should I use stainless steel instead of plastic? Is stainless steel better for health?

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) released a report in July 2018 suggesting ways that families can limit exposure to certain chemicals at mealtime, including “the use of alternatives to plastic, such as glass or stainless steel, when possible.” The report explained that “…some additives are put directly in foods, while “indirect” additives may include chemicals from plastic, glues, dyes, paper, cardboard”. Further, “Children are more sensitive to chemical exposures because they eat and drink more, relative to body weight, than adults do, and are still growing and developing.” While stainless steel items meet the recommendation to avoid plastic products in children, Ahimsa® products have the obvious advantage of not breaking like glass.

Is stainless steel better for the environment than plastic?

According to the Steel Recycling Institute, steel can be recycled over and over and over again without losing its integrity and requires less energy to recycle than to make anew. Most plastic unfortunately ends up in landfills and it is estimated to take 700 years to decompose. Our special coloring process that allows Ahimsa® products to be fully metal is environmentally friendly, so it does not produce toxic run-off into the ecosystem.

Will Ahimsa products break or peel?

No. Our steel is durable, so it won’t break or shatter with everyday use, like glass. And it won’t peel, like other colored stainless steel products you’ve seen. We use a special process that allows the colors to naturally occur in the metal.

Which Ahimsa products are best for my little one(s)?

Our products are meant to last, you can use Ahimsa at ages 1, 8 and 18! We thoughtfully design our products to be safe for little ones and our planet while reducing consumption. Once your child outgrows the Starting Solids Set  and can use regular cups and utensils, the training cup is the perfect size rinse cup in the bathroom, the infant spoon doubles as a tea stirrer and the bowl is great for snacks or as an additional compartment to our modular divided plate. Our plates are great for any age as they encourage choosing a variety of healthy foods at each meal and help visualize portion sizes easily. It’s the lasting beauty of stainless steel - grows with your child and reduces waste.

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